Lately, Sue's been nudging me to lose some weight (shocking, huh?)…
So, this following video by Christian Comedian Jeff Allen really made
me laugh because, as you know, most jokes are only funny because they
contain a grain of truth.
This book started out as a "to do" item on Robert's list, but as I was helping him with the research, I realized that I had (quite a few) strong opinions on the topic of oral sex in marriage and that it would provide our readers (both men and women) with a uniquely valuable perspective if the book were to be written from the woman's perspective.
I want to thank everyone that took the time to send such nice notes about the book and I'm thrilled that, already, it seems to be making a big difference in many of your sex lives.
Robert also asked me to follow up with some of the questions and "not so nice" notes that we've received regarding this book.
A few days ago, we received the following email and I hoped you might find my responses to its writer helpful to those of you that may have similar feelings (or a spouse that does):
In a way, I should be celebrating instead of complaining because I discovered a recent scientific study regarding female sexual response that I found to be truly enlightening and helpful…
But, I do get frustrated that similarly helpful studies are FAR AND FEW BETWEEN (Maybe once or twice a year I find a scientific study that might amount to information we didn't know in 1952)…
So, when I do stumble across a study that appears significant, I can't help but feel annoyed that we have to wait till 2010 for scientists to bring our scientific knowledge of female sexuality and sexual response into this century…let alone this decade…or year.
In an episode of Frasier (one of my favorite sitcoms of all time), titled "Sleeping With The Enemy," Dr. Crane (Kelsey Grammer) is having a discussion with Daphne (Jane Leeves) about the differences between men and women…
Daphne says, "Oh, come on now, Dr Crane. It's not like men have never used sex to get what they want."
His reply is hilarious AND contains a bit of real truth…
"How can we possibly use sex to get what we want?! Sex IS what we want!"