In an episode of Frasier (one of my favorite sitcoms of all time), titled "Sleeping With The Enemy," Dr. Crane (Kelsey Grammer) is having a discussion with Daphne (Jane Leeves) about the differences between men and women…
Daphne says, "Oh, come on now, Dr Crane. It's not like men have never used sex to get what they want."
His reply is hilarious AND contains a bit of real truth…
"How can we possibly use sex to get what we want?! Sex IS what we want!"
What does this mean to you?
Many husbands find themselves "stuck" in a weird place in their marriage relative to sex…
He (like the title of this Frasier episode) starts to feel like he is "sleeping with the enemy" instead of the loving, sexual wife that he wishes were lying next to him.
He knows (even if no one has the courage to put it in words) that her (the wife's) lack of sexual interest is causing tension, stress and strain on the marriage relationship…
But he has NO clue (or hope) that things could be different.
She truly isn't that interested in sex.
She truly doesn't understand "What's the big deal about sex?"
After working with thousands of married couples…hundreds personally…I can guarantee you one thing…
Ignoring the situation and hoping (praying?) that your wife will "magically" become more sexual WON'T work!
You may "give up" bothering her for sex…
But it will KILL your marriage relationship and will make you a very unhappy and unhealthy person.
Fortunately, this is NOT something you have to learn to "live with."
It is one of the EASIEST and FASTEST "marital problems" to fix.
I've has just finished my newest book, How To Put Your Wife In The Mood.
It was written for husbands just like you…that are frustrated with their wives lack of interest in sex and want to change things without being
"pushy" or hurting the marriage relationship further.
It addresses all of the fundamental mistakes that husbands make when it comes to sex and will give you THE blueprint of what to and NOT to do
help your wife to become TRULY more interested in sex…more often…WITHOUT BEING PUSHY…at all.
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